I've been on quite a few online-to-real-life dates, and it does not compare to actually going out and meeting a girl and getting that accomplished feeling.
One fundamental difference is you ALREADY know she is interested in you or else she wouldn't dedicate part of her day to meeting you in real life. This makes you more comfortable and ready to game her upon meeting.
I suggest trying a mental exercise of treating every potential approach in real life as if you did meet them online, and even if they are cold, tell yourself that she was into you before, you just have to warm up to her.
It worked for me when I moved into "real life" territory, but I'm aware it might be harder for others. Regardless, it is an interesting exercise in frame control nonetheless.
One fundamental difference is you ALREADY know she is interested in you or else she wouldn't dedicate part of her day to meeting you in real life. This makes you more comfortable and ready to game her upon meeting.
I suggest trying a mental exercise of treating every potential approach in real life as if you did meet them online, and even if they are cold, tell yourself that she was into you before, you just have to warm up to her.
It worked for me when I moved into "real life" territory, but I'm aware it might be harder for others. Regardless, it is an interesting exercise in frame control nonetheless.
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