Quote: (10-19-2012 02:11 PM)Fisto Wrote:
Something happens to a girl when she surrenders herself, she becomes emotionally more damaged (once you leave), and the value she places on herself and her ability to give herself to another man becomes easier.
Very depressing outlook Fisto!
A lot has to do with how you frame your interactions. I'm incredibly transparent from the start - so girls right away know that I'm not looking for an exclusive relationship, or anything serious. We only live in the moment, and they take the moment for what it's worth.
If you go in under the allusion of anything which is NOT congruent to what you intend (e.g. living in their country, moving in together, marriage), then YES that will make the girl more damaged.
If you're not growing, you're dying.