i agree this ^^^ is huge. this is the social intuition/empathy at its finest. the phrase "At each point you're making it easy relative to what she needs" explains it best.
like in IKE's example of Starbucks when she's worried about her image.. on verbal level it's smarter to open with "hi, i haven't seen you for ages" with friendly smile and be innocent physically then isolate to one on one and express what's up for real than for example to start with "hey you're hot come here" right away.
i call it art of trobleshooting for a reason.
like in IKE's example of Starbucks when she's worried about her image.. on verbal level it's smarter to open with "hi, i haven't seen you for ages" with friendly smile and be innocent physically then isolate to one on one and express what's up for real than for example to start with "hey you're hot come here" right away.
i call it art of trobleshooting for a reason.