I've been reading a lot lately about guys complaining about girls who are flakey. Here's what I think about the subject. To guys who complains too much about flaking :
1- Don't date stupid bitches
She's hot, she gives you an erection, and you want to fuck her. But she's a selfish cunt, she's obnoxious and loud, narcissic, materialistic. Deep down you hate her. You picked her for her looks only. So why do you get angry when she's acting like the bitch she is? You're already taking shit from her just by listening to her mindless babble just so you can fuck her, so suck it up when she's being herself and flake.
3- Know what you want
Seems to me a lot of guys start by wanting to fuck a girl but end up liking her in the process. If you're in the businness of fucking for fucking, then you will seek a particular kind of women (bitches) , and you won't care about them not showing up to dates. If you care it means you already have some feelings for her and you're doing it wrong. Feelings are for long term relationships. Mixing the two is generally a bad idea.
And if a ltr is what you're looking for... --->
3- Don't be an asshole yourself
Most game material is suited to get bitches into bed, not for love, not for romance, but to get laid. That's where it all started from : bars and clubs. This is a particular subset of society. So if you go around treating every women like club bitches, and everything is a power play, then they will return you the same level of respect. It doesn't mean they're not attracted to you and their vaginas are not tickled, it means on a human level they just think you're not good. This matters too. There's attraction, but there's also social skills.
If you're a guy with certain values, and that's the core of yourself, play your own strenghts. For instance, if you expect someone, not just girls , to be on time or not flake, then act accordingly : be on time and don't flake yourself. If you want a woman to commit to a date, commit to it yourself. If you're honest about it, then that gives you the right to call people out. Even bitches will appreciate it, they will sense your investment and good boyfriend material and think they have a chance catching you.
1- Don't date stupid bitches
She's hot, she gives you an erection, and you want to fuck her. But she's a selfish cunt, she's obnoxious and loud, narcissic, materialistic. Deep down you hate her. You picked her for her looks only. So why do you get angry when she's acting like the bitch she is? You're already taking shit from her just by listening to her mindless babble just so you can fuck her, so suck it up when she's being herself and flake.
3- Know what you want
Seems to me a lot of guys start by wanting to fuck a girl but end up liking her in the process. If you're in the businness of fucking for fucking, then you will seek a particular kind of women (bitches) , and you won't care about them not showing up to dates. If you care it means you already have some feelings for her and you're doing it wrong. Feelings are for long term relationships. Mixing the two is generally a bad idea.
And if a ltr is what you're looking for... --->
3- Don't be an asshole yourself
Most game material is suited to get bitches into bed, not for love, not for romance, but to get laid. That's where it all started from : bars and clubs. This is a particular subset of society. So if you go around treating every women like club bitches, and everything is a power play, then they will return you the same level of respect. It doesn't mean they're not attracted to you and their vaginas are not tickled, it means on a human level they just think you're not good. This matters too. There's attraction, but there's also social skills.
If you're a guy with certain values, and that's the core of yourself, play your own strenghts. For instance, if you expect someone, not just girls , to be on time or not flake, then act accordingly : be on time and don't flake yourself. If you want a woman to commit to a date, commit to it yourself. If you're honest about it, then that gives you the right to call people out. Even bitches will appreciate it, they will sense your investment and good boyfriend material and think they have a chance catching you.