Make your ladder escalate. Start with the general non-pain causing rough stuff, little face slaps, little spankings, little chokings....and then stuff that's a bit harder. Talk to her as you escalate
"You like that? You want it harder? Tell me that you want it."
Have her say yes to escalations. If she is into it, she will assent.
Consider immoblizing her. One married slut I was fucking quite a while ago loved it when I put a pillow on the back of chair, had her bend over it, and then tied her wrists to the front legs of the chair. I walked around the chair. slapped her, and the rammed it right up her ass.
"You like that? You want it harder? Tell me that you want it."
Have her say yes to escalations. If she is into it, she will assent.
Consider immoblizing her. One married slut I was fucking quite a while ago loved it when I put a pillow on the back of chair, had her bend over it, and then tied her wrists to the front legs of the chair. I walked around the chair. slapped her, and the rammed it right up her ass.