I'm telling you ...if you want to build a little quick intimacy you gotta gossip or talk a little shit with her.
Example: You're sitting at a bar or coffee shop or boardwalk bench together. You sit there and make
some small talk about the weather or where she's from. Then you get her to do some people watching
with you. You start making fun of people together.
"Check out this guy's stupid shirt". "It was probably a gift from his grandma" or something similar.
Just get her to laugh.
When you join forces with her against someone it builds intimacy. It's lame. It's corny. It's very 2nd grade.
But it makes her more comfortable with you. Try it.
Example: You're sitting at a bar or coffee shop or boardwalk bench together. You sit there and make
some small talk about the weather or where she's from. Then you get her to do some people watching
with you. You start making fun of people together.
"Check out this guy's stupid shirt". "It was probably a gift from his grandma" or something similar.
Just get her to laugh.
When you join forces with her against someone it builds intimacy. It's lame. It's corny. It's very 2nd grade.
But it makes her more comfortable with you. Try it.
Team Nachos