Quote: (09-13-2012 08:48 PM)Knowledge Seeker Wrote:
That's because women don't expect to do the work. They want men to woo them immensely before they take the panties off (unless she's just a straight up slut).
/snip
The man has to make everything happen, unfortunately.
Quote: (09-13-2012 09:37 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:
Girls live in this silly fantasy world not just about meeting and approaching, but about everything. They think:
1. That I just happened to /snip
This shit takes countless hours of planning, money, and discussion in places like this. I always say tells chicks, post-bang: "girls don't realize all the amount of work that goes on behind-the-scenes for this [point at our mutual nudity] to happen." If these girls want to continue to live in a romantic-comedy world, they need to recognize that men planning, spending, and talking in frank, candid, even explicit ways is the way it happens.
They can't turn around (like those couchsurfing harpies, for example) and complain when they look behind the curtain--because they choose to--and notice the ugly machinery that makes their beautiful illusion happen.
Quote: (09-13-2012 09:54 PM)Timoteo Wrote:
You've all described why women treat game like it's something sinister or "creepy." It shatters their little fantasy world. It robs them of the magic and romanticism that they think creates their relationships with men. They don't want to hear that it was all a plan on the part of men. They like believing that it just happens - that it's two souls meeting. They don't want to know that it's all a plan designed for dick to meet mouth, vagina, and for the more twisted among us, anus...HA HA!
Quote: (09-13-2012 10:32 PM)Norset Wrote:
This thread is essentially describing why game works. If girls were as rational as men, it wouldn't. And the core to that is the "just happened/ meant to be" myth.
This applies to everything in life though. The harder you work, the harder you must make sure other people don't know how hard you work.
When girls say, "I love SPONTANEOUS guys," there are people out there that think it means to suddenly perform some random behaviour out of the blue. I tend to think that it's more along the lines of what you guys have described ie. spontaneous for HER, planned for YOU (without making it seem so).
Kind of plays into Roosh's idea of not scaring the cat as well.