Quote: (09-02-2010 07:57 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:
I've never tried this approach, but for the sake of this discussion I'll mention it, I've read on a few game blogs about guys who send out mass text messages to girls they have in their phone list that have flaked on them. Basically, you send a text to 10 girls who've flaked in the past 2-4 weeks, and say something like: "Going to be chilling at X bar at 9 o'clock drinking some tasty cocktails, you should come join me...", this way you are putting minimal work into calling/texting each girl, and are maintaining a strong frame in the sense that you are not asking them to go per se, you are saying that you will be here and that they "should" come.
I've never tried this approach, and probably won't because from my perspective if a girl who gave me her number at the time and seemed interested, ends up flaking 2-4 days later when I call and doesn't even answer/reply, then there is like a 95% chance she won't answer/reply when I try weeks later. I also like to take a dominant frame of not "giving a fuck" when she does flake, it helps with your inner game IMHO when you say "fuck em'" when they flake on you. But as far as this mass text message thing, I bet you'd have 2-3 girls reply if you sent them a text like that, and only 1 would probably show up.
For now, i'm chalking it up as a learning experience, and focusing new prospects as much as poss. Once I 100% don't care anymore is prob. when she'll show up.