I'm going to chime in here and say that the second date is, in fact, dead. At least amongst the millennial generation. These girls need the seduction to be "organic"; something out of a romantic comedy because that's what's "supposed" to happen. That means she meets you at a dark bar and is so swept away by your graceful embodiment of the masculine that she's herded forth onto your cock by a cosmic stroke of serendipity (hormones).
She needs a narrative to retell herself, something she can skew and warp into a B-grade Hollywood script because she's a special little flower in bloom. Your responsibility as the steely protagonist with a piercing glare that smites the bad guys (read: dude who's about to hit and quit her) is to play the part and surpass her expectations.
We all know the hilarious excuses girls conjure up to justify the fact that they were pumped and dumped. The gap between first and second date allows the logical conclusions dammed up in her hindbrain the time to overflow. She suddenly realizes (unless you're of particularly high value) she's going to be kicked to the curb once you bone her and that will be that. Nay, she'd rather suffer through celibacy than go through the indignation of being perceived as a floozy.
She needs a narrative to retell herself, something she can skew and warp into a B-grade Hollywood script because she's a special little flower in bloom. Your responsibility as the steely protagonist with a piercing glare that smites the bad guys (read: dude who's about to hit and quit her) is to play the part and surpass her expectations.
We all know the hilarious excuses girls conjure up to justify the fact that they were pumped and dumped. The gap between first and second date allows the logical conclusions dammed up in her hindbrain the time to overflow. She suddenly realizes (unless you're of particularly high value) she's going to be kicked to the curb once you bone her and that will be that. Nay, she'd rather suffer through celibacy than go through the indignation of being perceived as a floozy.