I recently had a jolt of confidence, and I've been experimenting with thinking mantras while talking to girls.
I find that thinking things like: "This girl is nothing. She's an annoying brat- a little sister. I could easily crush her" helps me to maintain dominance, and reminds me of the truth of the situation.
I find that thinking things like: "This girl is nothing. She's an annoying brat- a little sister. I could easily crush her" helps me to maintain dominance, and reminds me of the truth of the situation.