Step 1: Read this thread-this discussion has been done before, and it could be useful to you.
Step 2:
Do not do this. The vast majority of girls you see in mainstream porn are faking it. Scenes do exist in which the girl is genuinely getting off, but they are the exception, not the rule. For most porn girls, their scenes are merely a job, and they treat it accordingly. This work often actually precludes genuine orgasm because they are a) not seriously attracted to some of the men they're fucking, b) not fucking in environments they are comfortable in and c) not allowed to fuck in the positions/methods that they find most erotic, instead working to try and get angles for the camera.
Mainstream porn is a show put on for the viewer, designed to appeal to his (and, occasionally, her) fantasies. It is largely useless for gauging sexual realities.
The fact that so many guys are trying to use it for this purpose may explain why so many guys have no idea how to lay it down.
If you must use some form of porn, you are going to need to tailor it to just a handful of sources and the vast majority of the mainstream stuff will be excluded. Stick to amateur (several high quality tube sites out there have authentic video with real people, not actors, genuinely enjoying each other's company) and some pro-am (Pierre Woodman's castings are a good start). From these more authentic videos you may be able to glean what actually works. Do NOT use mainstream porn.
Step 3: Familiarize yourself with male kegels, get some solid lower-body core workouts going, and work a little high intensity cardio for stamina.
Step 2:
Quote: (07-31-2012 01:25 AM)Hades Wrote:
General consensus is watch porn, take some mental notes, give it a shot.
I can't tell if the girls in porn are faking it, but I doubt all of them are.
Do not do this. The vast majority of girls you see in mainstream porn are faking it. Scenes do exist in which the girl is genuinely getting off, but they are the exception, not the rule. For most porn girls, their scenes are merely a job, and they treat it accordingly. This work often actually precludes genuine orgasm because they are a) not seriously attracted to some of the men they're fucking, b) not fucking in environments they are comfortable in and c) not allowed to fuck in the positions/methods that they find most erotic, instead working to try and get angles for the camera.
Mainstream porn is a show put on for the viewer, designed to appeal to his (and, occasionally, her) fantasies. It is largely useless for gauging sexual realities.
The fact that so many guys are trying to use it for this purpose may explain why so many guys have no idea how to lay it down.
If you must use some form of porn, you are going to need to tailor it to just a handful of sources and the vast majority of the mainstream stuff will be excluded. Stick to amateur (several high quality tube sites out there have authentic video with real people, not actors, genuinely enjoying each other's company) and some pro-am (Pierre Woodman's castings are a good start). From these more authentic videos you may be able to glean what actually works. Do NOT use mainstream porn.
Step 3: Familiarize yourself with male kegels, get some solid lower-body core workouts going, and work a little high intensity cardio for stamina.
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