Last night, my brother and I went to a trendy bar in Downtown Honolulu. I was cockblocked, and it is driving me crazy today. Mahalo again to Roosh for making this forum, because when I'm angry or sad, like when I get cockblocked, I can come here and vent.
I understand it's pointless to dwell on the past, but if any of you who read this can think of better ways that I could have handled this, I'd like to hear them. It has also become very important to me to find the girl that was torn away from me, and have sex with her.
My target was a solid 9 Asian/Polynesian mixed girl who can be seen in modeling crap and in magazines around Hawaii. She is also a waitress at another trendy nightclub, where I've seen her in the past, but only introduced myself. When she's been my waitress, I've always been working on other girls. Had I swooped this girl, it would have kicked off my Forth of July weekend perfectly, and I would have made a strong effort to keep her at my house all three days. Instead I got robbed.
The bar we went to was had a tremendous amount of bangable girls at it. The first thing we noticed, though was the bouncers. They were Tongans. My brother and I have a Samoan look about us, and Tongans hate Samoans. The bartender covering the area I felt was strategically the best spot to be was also Tongan. I knew we'd have a hard time locking the place down.
My bother saw two white girls he knew from college across the way, and went to start on them. I was in my spot which was near the hallway that led to the bathrooms. My Asian/Poly target girl just kind of appeared and walked right up to me. She just had a glow about her. My opener was "Hi." We hugged and cheek kissed, and touching overall was heavy from the get go. After about 15 minutes of conversation she set her drink down and finished her trip to the bathrooms. When she came back I noticed she'd added makeup and fixed her hair and crap. She was wearing the little black dress, but the top was one of these that the Asian girls wear that kind of hangs from behind her neck and is open down to the skirt. These things show tits off perfectly, and hers were fantastic. I took her hand and led her to the smoking area.
Homeless iceheads are everywhere in Downtown, and one approached us. This guy was scary, and the girl wrapped herself around my left arm and I kind of pulled her behind me to protect her. I gave the guy a cigarette and told him to go away. I should have paid him, because the way the girl looked at me, I knew I'd closed.
We went back in and she wanted to dance. Not that I don't like dancing, I just don't like to do what girls want, so I just kind of stood there while she rubbed all over me like I was a stripper pole. I was squeezing her ass tightly when I could, and ran my hand up her side and tweaked a nipple under the dress. We went back to the bar, and found some seats. I was completely able to guide this girl into any position I wanted her in, and could just feel I was set up to have fantastic sex later. I had her sitting with our legs in the scissor position, and I started rubbing up her thighs. She was wearing a mesh-feeling thong, and was wet through it. She wanted a shot, and they had Mezcal, so we had one. Her nipples got super hard, her arms were goose bumped and her forehead was a little sweaty. She started kissing me.
I noticed across the way that my brother had singled off with a white girl, so I texted him that we needed to get somewhere else. We live 45 minutes by car from where we were, and getting girls back to my house is a little harder, so you gotta be crafty. My brother and I agreed that we needed to get the girls to the Gentlemans Club. I told my girl that we had to meet a guy at the strip club, and she agreed to come with us. My brother texted that his chick was also down. We didn't really have to meet anybody there, but there is a strong group of regulars and we knew we could play it off. I was on top of the world, and started texting my bro to try and get his chicks friend back around. He and I both had our game firing perfectly so I was looking to work him into a three way at the same time.
Here's were I go from happy to sad:
My girl said she was going to go tell her friends she was leaving. She had been with me for a total of about 50 minutes. She had her back to me, but was talking to a group of 2 girls and three gay looking guys. One of the guys was the club promoter douchebag I've seen around town in the past. He was wearing tight black jeans, a small black t-shirt with some words on it, a sideways baseball hat, and a god damn wooly scarf.
The girl came back towards me holding hands with another girl, said she said she was going to talk to her girlfriend for a minute and then she'd dip out with me. She gave me one of the hottest kisses I've ever gotten and her friend pulled her down the bathroom hallway. I got back on the text with my bro, and he had convinced both white girls to come with us. We were ready.
Out of nowhere, the little scarf motherfucker comes up and says this:
"You know that girl you're with is a friend of mine, and she's been hurt by guys before, I won't let it happen again. She's not leaving with you"
I told him I'd be gentle. He didn't care he tells me that the group came together and is leaving together and some other white knight bullshit. The guy then tells me the other girl is in the bathroom telling my Asian/Poly mixed 9 that the group isn't letting her leave with me. I could have played it cooler, but instead used a lot of foul language and told him I was going to choke him with the scarf if he was telling the truth. There is no reason to wear a scarf in Hawaii, especially in the summer time. The guy walks away, but comes back followed by three 300 pound Tongan bouncers (and no scarf on) and all four of them tell me I gotta go. They got kind of pushy, and my little brother saw this and abandoned his girls and came over. They threw us both out.
We went to a bar across the street to regroup and sat by the window. About 20 minutes later we see the scarf guy standing in front giving the valet guys his ticket. They brought his car, and he hustled my girl and 3 other people in and drove off. I memorized his license number, I don't know why.
Maybe 10 minutes later my brother's white girls walked out and were just looking around. He snatched them up, we went to the strip joint for a while, then drove back to my house. They were both standard fare good looking 22 year old American girls, and I swooped one, but it just wasn't the same.
What does a guy get out of cockblocking like that? He never has and never will have sex with that girl, is it just jealousy?
Outside of family, I'm not "friends" enough with any girl on this planet that I would feel the need to protect a girl that way?
What worries me most as far as hindering my swooping this girl in the future is what the scarf guy told her after I was tossed out. There's no way to know. Most likely he tells her I threatened her sweet little friend boy and the big scary Samoan had to be thrown out? Or he says nothing and the girl thinks I'm some kind of freak that got her wet then ditched her.
I'll probably just let it cool then head into the bar she works at around closing and see if I can spark things up with her there. Of course, unless any of you experts can lead me in another direction.
Mahalo for taking the time to read this.
Aloha!
I understand it's pointless to dwell on the past, but if any of you who read this can think of better ways that I could have handled this, I'd like to hear them. It has also become very important to me to find the girl that was torn away from me, and have sex with her.
My target was a solid 9 Asian/Polynesian mixed girl who can be seen in modeling crap and in magazines around Hawaii. She is also a waitress at another trendy nightclub, where I've seen her in the past, but only introduced myself. When she's been my waitress, I've always been working on other girls. Had I swooped this girl, it would have kicked off my Forth of July weekend perfectly, and I would have made a strong effort to keep her at my house all three days. Instead I got robbed.
The bar we went to was had a tremendous amount of bangable girls at it. The first thing we noticed, though was the bouncers. They were Tongans. My brother and I have a Samoan look about us, and Tongans hate Samoans. The bartender covering the area I felt was strategically the best spot to be was also Tongan. I knew we'd have a hard time locking the place down.
My bother saw two white girls he knew from college across the way, and went to start on them. I was in my spot which was near the hallway that led to the bathrooms. My Asian/Poly target girl just kind of appeared and walked right up to me. She just had a glow about her. My opener was "Hi." We hugged and cheek kissed, and touching overall was heavy from the get go. After about 15 minutes of conversation she set her drink down and finished her trip to the bathrooms. When she came back I noticed she'd added makeup and fixed her hair and crap. She was wearing the little black dress, but the top was one of these that the Asian girls wear that kind of hangs from behind her neck and is open down to the skirt. These things show tits off perfectly, and hers were fantastic. I took her hand and led her to the smoking area.
Homeless iceheads are everywhere in Downtown, and one approached us. This guy was scary, and the girl wrapped herself around my left arm and I kind of pulled her behind me to protect her. I gave the guy a cigarette and told him to go away. I should have paid him, because the way the girl looked at me, I knew I'd closed.
We went back in and she wanted to dance. Not that I don't like dancing, I just don't like to do what girls want, so I just kind of stood there while she rubbed all over me like I was a stripper pole. I was squeezing her ass tightly when I could, and ran my hand up her side and tweaked a nipple under the dress. We went back to the bar, and found some seats. I was completely able to guide this girl into any position I wanted her in, and could just feel I was set up to have fantastic sex later. I had her sitting with our legs in the scissor position, and I started rubbing up her thighs. She was wearing a mesh-feeling thong, and was wet through it. She wanted a shot, and they had Mezcal, so we had one. Her nipples got super hard, her arms were goose bumped and her forehead was a little sweaty. She started kissing me.
I noticed across the way that my brother had singled off with a white girl, so I texted him that we needed to get somewhere else. We live 45 minutes by car from where we were, and getting girls back to my house is a little harder, so you gotta be crafty. My brother and I agreed that we needed to get the girls to the Gentlemans Club. I told my girl that we had to meet a guy at the strip club, and she agreed to come with us. My brother texted that his chick was also down. We didn't really have to meet anybody there, but there is a strong group of regulars and we knew we could play it off. I was on top of the world, and started texting my bro to try and get his chicks friend back around. He and I both had our game firing perfectly so I was looking to work him into a three way at the same time.
Here's were I go from happy to sad:
My girl said she was going to go tell her friends she was leaving. She had been with me for a total of about 50 minutes. She had her back to me, but was talking to a group of 2 girls and three gay looking guys. One of the guys was the club promoter douchebag I've seen around town in the past. He was wearing tight black jeans, a small black t-shirt with some words on it, a sideways baseball hat, and a god damn wooly scarf.
The girl came back towards me holding hands with another girl, said she said she was going to talk to her girlfriend for a minute and then she'd dip out with me. She gave me one of the hottest kisses I've ever gotten and her friend pulled her down the bathroom hallway. I got back on the text with my bro, and he had convinced both white girls to come with us. We were ready.
Out of nowhere, the little scarf motherfucker comes up and says this:
"You know that girl you're with is a friend of mine, and she's been hurt by guys before, I won't let it happen again. She's not leaving with you"
I told him I'd be gentle. He didn't care he tells me that the group came together and is leaving together and some other white knight bullshit. The guy then tells me the other girl is in the bathroom telling my Asian/Poly mixed 9 that the group isn't letting her leave with me. I could have played it cooler, but instead used a lot of foul language and told him I was going to choke him with the scarf if he was telling the truth. There is no reason to wear a scarf in Hawaii, especially in the summer time. The guy walks away, but comes back followed by three 300 pound Tongan bouncers (and no scarf on) and all four of them tell me I gotta go. They got kind of pushy, and my little brother saw this and abandoned his girls and came over. They threw us both out.
We went to a bar across the street to regroup and sat by the window. About 20 minutes later we see the scarf guy standing in front giving the valet guys his ticket. They brought his car, and he hustled my girl and 3 other people in and drove off. I memorized his license number, I don't know why.
Maybe 10 minutes later my brother's white girls walked out and were just looking around. He snatched them up, we went to the strip joint for a while, then drove back to my house. They were both standard fare good looking 22 year old American girls, and I swooped one, but it just wasn't the same.
What does a guy get out of cockblocking like that? He never has and never will have sex with that girl, is it just jealousy?
Outside of family, I'm not "friends" enough with any girl on this planet that I would feel the need to protect a girl that way?
What worries me most as far as hindering my swooping this girl in the future is what the scarf guy told her after I was tossed out. There's no way to know. Most likely he tells her I threatened her sweet little friend boy and the big scary Samoan had to be thrown out? Or he says nothing and the girl thinks I'm some kind of freak that got her wet then ditched her.
I'll probably just let it cool then head into the bar she works at around closing and see if I can spark things up with her there. Of course, unless any of you experts can lead me in another direction.
Mahalo for taking the time to read this.
Aloha!