I would definitely stay away from any sort of mental tricks like thinking of something boring or of Margarette Thatcher naked on a cold day. Even if that stuff works, it won't make sex fun for you.
And don't order placebo pills or order Japanese tree bark cream and rub it all over your penis.
Of course, if you have a medical problem, see a urologist and don't listen to what anyone here says.
Really you just need to demystify the act of sex. If it helps think about it it anatomical or a scientific way. Me, I just think of it as something natural that is the way we all got here, so when I'm balls deep in some shrieking girl, it's all part of some great unifying cosmic experience.
And don't order placebo pills or order Japanese tree bark cream and rub it all over your penis.
Of course, if you have a medical problem, see a urologist and don't listen to what anyone here says.
Really you just need to demystify the act of sex. If it helps think about it it anatomical or a scientific way. Me, I just think of it as something natural that is the way we all got here, so when I'm balls deep in some shrieking girl, it's all part of some great unifying cosmic experience.