I'd only use sexualization to let her know that I'm a sexual being, not afraid of women etc. (kind of like the neo-kino concept in tuthmosis' first date bang recipe), otherwise you risk giving a way too much of your intention.
Remember, everything has to be done with intention (you have to have direction), but it can't be so obvious. Even when a girl is super direct and is like "let's get out of here," there needs to be plausible deniability on the surface.
So, I'd rather talk about really mundane things like "my new computer," or "my favorite breakfast food" while simultaneously pushing her hand down to my cock, than be talking about sex things while standing at a bar.
Actions (kino/body language) speak louder than words.
Remember, everything has to be done with intention (you have to have direction), but it can't be so obvious. Even when a girl is super direct and is like "let's get out of here," there needs to be plausible deniability on the surface.
So, I'd rather talk about really mundane things like "my new computer," or "my favorite breakfast food" while simultaneously pushing her hand down to my cock, than be talking about sex things while standing at a bar.
Actions (kino/body language) speak louder than words.