I didn't read the whole thing yet, but to answer the question, YES.
EDIT: Read the whole thing now... yeah, you definitely should've went up to her place after the first date. You probably didn't even have to say anything silly like "let me come up and check out your place" should have just got up out of the car and went with her.
Next time you're with her, try hard to get that notch. It's better to be too aggressive than too passive, and you're being too passive.
EDIT: Read the whole thing now... yeah, you definitely should've went up to her place after the first date. You probably didn't even have to say anything silly like "let me come up and check out your place" should have just got up out of the car and went with her.
Next time you're with her, try hard to get that notch. It's better to be too aggressive than too passive, and you're being too passive.