It happens bro. I've been there plenty of times. Here's a few points of advice.
-- Girls don't really give a shit about this as much as you think. If she's a slut, I can almost guarantee that she has seen happen it before with other guys (women have told me this). If she's inexperienced, then obviously it doesn't matter because she has almost nobody to compare you to. This problem is not as uncommon as you may perceive. That may explain why you haven't lost the girls as you expected you would.
-- If/when it happens, just play it off cool. If you've been drinking, that's an easy excuse. Otherwise, just laugh it off and say "we'll try again in a bit" and just keep flirting/doing foreplay.
-- This is easier said than done, but don't think about your dick or about whether it is hard or not. Think about the hottie in your bed and how much you want to fuck her. Forget about finishing fast... that also doesn't matter as much as you think if you make the time count.
-- If you want to protect yourself even more, buy some horny goat weed and pop one or two earlier in the day. It is a fully natural supplement that you can buy at GNC or online, unlike Viagra/Cialis which are pharmaceuticals that work on your brain chemistry (not saying this is necessarily bad, but if you're a younger guy it may not be the best idea). Maybe it's just a placebo effect, though it has worked for me enough to where I rarely need to take it anymore.
In short, try as hard as you can to not be self-conscious about it. It is not a big deal unless you make it one.
-- Girls don't really give a shit about this as much as you think. If she's a slut, I can almost guarantee that she has seen happen it before with other guys (women have told me this). If she's inexperienced, then obviously it doesn't matter because she has almost nobody to compare you to. This problem is not as uncommon as you may perceive. That may explain why you haven't lost the girls as you expected you would.
-- If/when it happens, just play it off cool. If you've been drinking, that's an easy excuse. Otherwise, just laugh it off and say "we'll try again in a bit" and just keep flirting/doing foreplay.
-- This is easier said than done, but don't think about your dick or about whether it is hard or not. Think about the hottie in your bed and how much you want to fuck her. Forget about finishing fast... that also doesn't matter as much as you think if you make the time count.
-- If you want to protect yourself even more, buy some horny goat weed and pop one or two earlier in the day. It is a fully natural supplement that you can buy at GNC or online, unlike Viagra/Cialis which are pharmaceuticals that work on your brain chemistry (not saying this is necessarily bad, but if you're a younger guy it may not be the best idea). Maybe it's just a placebo effect, though it has worked for me enough to where I rarely need to take it anymore.
In short, try as hard as you can to not be self-conscious about it. It is not a big deal unless you make it one.