Quote: (03-30-2019 10:27 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:
When it comes to choosing the mother of your children then you need to remember that she's going to be providing half of their DNA, not just being a caretaker to them.
This goes toward not only looks and health but behavior too. The apple does not fall too far from the tree, as they say.
Women described as "having gotten their shit together" once they became mothers are a looong bet to gamble your future and the future of your children on. How long will it take for your children to "get their shit together"?
This exact point.
When you have a girl that follows every single silly idea that pops in her head, on YouTube, or on Facebook then you have much larger issues with her. The decision making flow chart is broken with her mind.
Most girls don't step up. They just do whatever everyone does.
My girl is a sweet, kind and caring girl but the rest of her family avoids dealing with any sort of responsibility of ANY kind. Her dad is a drunk and has been for 20yrs and her brother is well on the way. It took a few years for her to see all the dumb shit her family gets into and realize how fucked up it made her.
If she didn't start to show improvement on these issues and other issues i would've left her.
It's ok to have developed shitty habits from your family/society when you were growing up because you literally didn't know any better. It's not ok to stick your head in the ground and pretend you don't need to fix certain issues.