"You don't rise to the occasion, you fall to the level of your experience"
You already know the answer to your own question brother. We've all been there, it sucks but if you want something extremely long term you have to be pragmatic about things like this. A girl with a stubborn streak and/or an ego is no good for long term partnership. This stupid shit never goes away as you've experienced and stated before.
Best to cut your loses and look for a new girl with a solid head on her shoulders or find a younger girl that you can train to be the way you like.
You already know the answer to your own question brother. We've all been there, it sucks but if you want something extremely long term you have to be pragmatic about things like this. A girl with a stubborn streak and/or an ego is no good for long term partnership. This stupid shit never goes away as you've experienced and stated before.
Best to cut your loses and look for a new girl with a solid head on her shoulders or find a younger girl that you can train to be the way you like.