Am I the only one who is almost always offered to be paid for/is paid for by the girl, and if not then offered to go dutch?
I will ussually insist on paying, saying "Dont worry I got it" once the bill shows up but sometimes they beat me to it saying they want to get it/go dutch.
Some have even offered to pay me back immediately afterwards (e-transfer/cash), to which i always respond that its alright and that they can just grab the bill for something else for us later/next time.
It is to be noted that I'm pretty young and none of these bills have ever really exceeded ~$60 at max. So maybe that is why?
It has happened on really small and insignificant things as well like a cost of $10 for icecream for the both of us.
Edit: Wanted to add that there is ussually a funny little stand off where its the two of us bickering at the waiter or cashier to take my money not hers and her saying vice versa.
I will ussually insist on paying, saying "Dont worry I got it" once the bill shows up but sometimes they beat me to it saying they want to get it/go dutch.
Some have even offered to pay me back immediately afterwards (e-transfer/cash), to which i always respond that its alright and that they can just grab the bill for something else for us later/next time.
It is to be noted that I'm pretty young and none of these bills have ever really exceeded ~$60 at max. So maybe that is why?
It has happened on really small and insignificant things as well like a cost of $10 for icecream for the both of us.
Edit: Wanted to add that there is ussually a funny little stand off where its the two of us bickering at the waiter or cashier to take my money not hers and her saying vice versa.