There's really only two ways to handle this. Either pressure her into meeting up regardless of the status of the conversation or unmatch but I feel that a lengthy courtship phase via text is simply unacceptable. Whatever her reasons, accepting this broadcasts weakness and neediness which sets a bad foundation.
The true value of the texting phase also has to be put into perspective.
You'd think the photos would be enough to know whether there's mutual attraction but it's not. Photos can lie and there are turnoffs that you just can't pick up on in photos or texting.
Often times I'll have a pretty good conversation in text but everything completely falls apart in the meetup. You just never know if the attraction is real until you meet. So it doesn't make sense to get bogged down all the way back at the texting stage.
The true value of the texting phase also has to be put into perspective.
You'd think the photos would be enough to know whether there's mutual attraction but it's not. Photos can lie and there are turnoffs that you just can't pick up on in photos or texting.
Often times I'll have a pretty good conversation in text but everything completely falls apart in the meetup. You just never know if the attraction is real until you meet. So it doesn't make sense to get bogged down all the way back at the texting stage.