What is the point actually? These people just want to “confirm” that the world is unfair or rigged, so they do not have to look inwards? “See I approached x number or girls with zero results, I KNEW it”.
Also, I want to say something about day-game. I have said this in other threads, but I have no experience in game, meaning I have never read any books or watched any youtube videos etc. I say this because I think my view on daytime approaching is a very average joe blue pill kind of view.
When I read that people “spam approach” strangers in malls, parks and so on I feel part admiration and part are you out of your fucking mind. The fear of rejection is way to strong in me (I do not need that shit!!). Of course I understand that the whole point is to overcome that fear, but I honestly do not feel a strong need to do that. I am totally fine with either approaching people after some sort of intention of interest or through social circles. It is the same reason why I do not have a strong need to spend money in casinos, I like the game rigged in my favor.
When I look at all my blue pill friends I do not know anyone that has an ability to walk up to a stranger and “close”, I am talking about really good looking guys, point being that shit is hard. I guess this is also why the rewards are really high for the people that can master it.
You also need to consider the creep factor. Now I know you can be all like “urgh women are so ungrateful”, “I blame feminism”, “after me-too you can’t even talk to strangers without being sued” bla bla but come on: I also think “weirdo” or “creep” or “scam” if I get approached on the street by a stranger, this is regardless of gender.
It seems to me that the more “Assburger” a person is - the more of a creepy and mechanical approach they seem to take to meeting girls, not understanding how fucking hard it is to cold-approach people (especially if you are not blessed in the looks department). It seems to me that a lot of these people are not unsuccessful because of looks or SMV but simply because they fail to understand the most basic laws guiding human interactions.
Instead of awkwardly pestering people in malls they should engage in social activities where interactions with the opposite gender will come more naturally to gain experience. There is a reason most people in this world find partners through social circles.
With all this said some common knowledge must still prevail “Oh I look like the Hunchback of fucking Notre Dame, I do not get it, why was that HB7 so uncomfortable when I asked for her number in that dark alley last night?”
Also, I want to say something about day-game. I have said this in other threads, but I have no experience in game, meaning I have never read any books or watched any youtube videos etc. I say this because I think my view on daytime approaching is a very average joe blue pill kind of view.
When I read that people “spam approach” strangers in malls, parks and so on I feel part admiration and part are you out of your fucking mind. The fear of rejection is way to strong in me (I do not need that shit!!). Of course I understand that the whole point is to overcome that fear, but I honestly do not feel a strong need to do that. I am totally fine with either approaching people after some sort of intention of interest or through social circles. It is the same reason why I do not have a strong need to spend money in casinos, I like the game rigged in my favor.
When I look at all my blue pill friends I do not know anyone that has an ability to walk up to a stranger and “close”, I am talking about really good looking guys, point being that shit is hard. I guess this is also why the rewards are really high for the people that can master it.
You also need to consider the creep factor. Now I know you can be all like “urgh women are so ungrateful”, “I blame feminism”, “after me-too you can’t even talk to strangers without being sued” bla bla but come on: I also think “weirdo” or “creep” or “scam” if I get approached on the street by a stranger, this is regardless of gender.
It seems to me that the more “Assburger” a person is - the more of a creepy and mechanical approach they seem to take to meeting girls, not understanding how fucking hard it is to cold-approach people (especially if you are not blessed in the looks department). It seems to me that a lot of these people are not unsuccessful because of looks or SMV but simply because they fail to understand the most basic laws guiding human interactions.
Instead of awkwardly pestering people in malls they should engage in social activities where interactions with the opposite gender will come more naturally to gain experience. There is a reason most people in this world find partners through social circles.
With all this said some common knowledge must still prevail “Oh I look like the Hunchback of fucking Notre Dame, I do not get it, why was that HB7 so uncomfortable when I asked for her number in that dark alley last night?”