Having known quite a few expats go through the travel & fuck phase in the pussy havens of the world...I can tell you this is how it generally goes...
Phase 1: Honeymoon period. You don't speak the local language, everything is new and wondrous, and more importantly, the women fancy you because you're not a local and you seem to have some cash to spend on the finer things in life. This is when most expats swear off American women, sing the virtues of the local girls (esp. since your relative ignorance of the language & culture allows you the luxury of attributing imaginary traits to them), and you live for the weekend hunt. Sex is in the air.
Phase 2: Post-honeymoon period. You still don't speak the local language very well, but you're more established in the local scene. Whereas before, you were happy to bang local 5s because they'd be considered 7s in the US, your standards start to edge upwards. You become obsessed with accessing the top-tier.
Phase 3: Grass is greener period. You still can't seem to access the top-tier in the quantity and ease you want. They seem to have choices, and even worse, favor the local men with whom they share a common language and cultural rapport with. You become obsessed with going to second-tier cities, or countries that are off the tourist map (in other words, poorer and more redneck) so you can get, what in your mind, are fresh, untainted women.
Phase 4: Relationship period. Most guys by this time have settled down with a steady girlfriend, even if they are still fucking around on the down low. The weekend hunt just seems too bothersome and tiring to do on a regular basis, especially since the top-tier are still elusive and require luck & effort.
Phase 5. Relationship boredom. Guys start to realize that the pussy paradise they thought they found, is actually nothing special at best, and quite possibly a total shit hole with no redeeming qualities -- when chasing girls is no longer part of the equation. At this point, the guy will break up with the girlfriend, knock her up, or become increasingly miserable. Phase 3-5 becomes a repeating cycle for some.
Phase 6. Kid or Return. Between year 5-10, guys will either settle down with a local girl and pop out a kid, or re-locate to a respectable Western country. Some even go back to the U.S. Guys at this point are better able to see the pros and cons of their home country, and their adopted country. They realize that there is no perfect country. There is no pussy paradise. There's just good places for certain periods in your life, but even those are fleeting. Some try to find fulfillment in kids, others in their business, while the sad few go downwards into alcoholism/depression.
Phase 1: Honeymoon period. You don't speak the local language, everything is new and wondrous, and more importantly, the women fancy you because you're not a local and you seem to have some cash to spend on the finer things in life. This is when most expats swear off American women, sing the virtues of the local girls (esp. since your relative ignorance of the language & culture allows you the luxury of attributing imaginary traits to them), and you live for the weekend hunt. Sex is in the air.
Phase 2: Post-honeymoon period. You still don't speak the local language very well, but you're more established in the local scene. Whereas before, you were happy to bang local 5s because they'd be considered 7s in the US, your standards start to edge upwards. You become obsessed with accessing the top-tier.
Phase 3: Grass is greener period. You still can't seem to access the top-tier in the quantity and ease you want. They seem to have choices, and even worse, favor the local men with whom they share a common language and cultural rapport with. You become obsessed with going to second-tier cities, or countries that are off the tourist map (in other words, poorer and more redneck) so you can get, what in your mind, are fresh, untainted women.
Phase 4: Relationship period. Most guys by this time have settled down with a steady girlfriend, even if they are still fucking around on the down low. The weekend hunt just seems too bothersome and tiring to do on a regular basis, especially since the top-tier are still elusive and require luck & effort.
Phase 5. Relationship boredom. Guys start to realize that the pussy paradise they thought they found, is actually nothing special at best, and quite possibly a total shit hole with no redeeming qualities -- when chasing girls is no longer part of the equation. At this point, the guy will break up with the girlfriend, knock her up, or become increasingly miserable. Phase 3-5 becomes a repeating cycle for some.
Phase 6. Kid or Return. Between year 5-10, guys will either settle down with a local girl and pop out a kid, or re-locate to a respectable Western country. Some even go back to the U.S. Guys at this point are better able to see the pros and cons of their home country, and their adopted country. They realize that there is no perfect country. There is no pussy paradise. There's just good places for certain periods in your life, but even those are fleeting. Some try to find fulfillment in kids, others in their business, while the sad few go downwards into alcoholism/depression.