I've had sex with a girl I knew had herpes because (not during an outbreak.) I've had sex without a condom because she was allergic to latex and we didn't have one on hand and I really wanted to laid. I've had sex several times with girls who I just met hours ago without a condom.
I guess I do feel a little nervous. I just make sure to get tested in about 4 weeks, since that's about how long it takes for antibodies to show up if you did catch something.
I also tend to try and make sure she doesn't have STDs before having sex, especially if unprotected. I usually have a good sense of whether or not I can trust a girl by the time she's in my bed and I'll just ask her before we do anything. If she's on the pill, I trust her and she says she doesn't have anything, I'm go. If she's a really drunk bar girl and there's not a whole lot of connection, always condom.
I guess I do feel a little nervous. I just make sure to get tested in about 4 weeks, since that's about how long it takes for antibodies to show up if you did catch something.
I also tend to try and make sure she doesn't have STDs before having sex, especially if unprotected. I usually have a good sense of whether or not I can trust a girl by the time she's in my bed and I'll just ask her before we do anything. If she's on the pill, I trust her and she says she doesn't have anything, I'm go. If she's a really drunk bar girl and there's not a whole lot of connection, always condom.
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