Quote: (04-01-2012 09:36 AM)seluca Wrote:
Quote: (04-01-2012 09:05 AM)Perseus Wrote:
I've been super busy these past couple of weeks, extensively studying Body Language, which can be applied not only to women, but also to sales persons, politicians, etc.
For those for you who are Alpha, or trying to rid yourself of your Beta habits, have you ever considered the way you hold hands with a girl as you both are walking somewhere?
Let's say you've decided to change venues with a girl, to have some time alone with her, on the way there, you grab her hands, good comfort building move of course, however ALWAYS make sure that your palm is facing backwards (the back of your hand is in the direction of where you're walking), and hers facing forward when holding hands (opposite direction of where you're going). According to many studies, this subconsciously tells the girl that you're dominant, leading the interaction and she's following along.
For those of you who do this subconsciously (like myself), you are a natural Alpha, and now you're aware of it, but for those unaware of that, train yourself to do it. If she wants to hold hands and goes for yours, but your palm is facing forward, change positions immediately, other wise it will send a wrong message to her, not to mention that it would look awkward to others, as if SHE is taking you somewhere and you're her obedient little brother.
Cheers
I thought all men held hands like that because it's more comfortable for us who have bigger hands?
Could be true, i myself definitely find it uncomfortable, as i have big hands, however it was noted in some of my readings that there are some men who can be comfortable with either position, regardless of hand size.
Betas for e.g, might be too nervous holding hands with a girl to even bother changing position.