Quote: (04-10-2018 04:26 AM)Montrose Wrote:
Girls’ IOI and flirting behaviour comes from their unconscious mind
Decision to accept dinner date and date you comes from the conscious ego.
Ego and unconscious mind are not always in tune, particularly in women. She is likely unconsciously attracted to you but her ‘reasonable’ ego has decided that you’re not a good prospect and rationalizes it (‘you’re Arab’).
It’s not a bad situation (much better than when the ego likes you but the unconscious doesn’t) but it’s difficult to untangle in a corporate environment.
nice explanation. I can get a positive reaction with plenty of IOIs from most of the women I approach at my college, but most will not give me their number, even though many of them are very obviously attracted. perhaps it is because they are very young (18-21) ? I feel like once I reached a certain level of confidence, the subconscious attraction has almost become a given.