Quote: (03-21-2012 08:37 PM)The Duke Wrote:
Yeah beating around the bush might make you look like you are hiding something, but I think there are universal truths that apply to girls around the world. Mystery is universally good. I agree that it's less good in the FSU, but it's still good. Maybe you being a foriegner is already mysterous enough. I never try to come across as mysterious as if I'm hiding something, rather, I try to come across as honest, a person of character but also a person she wonders about.
In my opinion mystery is only good in a Western type, positively-thinking society. There the girl thinks "what other positive qualities this guy might have?" In Ukraine it does the opposite, she thinks "what negative qualities this guy is trying to hide?"