[The Catalyst]

I think you're either overvaluing preselection, or have a style/vibe that benefits from it more than normal. Seems like so much extra effort unless you actually have a solid female friend who understands you and is willing to put herself on the line to help you out.

> If you see a hot high value girl that you feel you won't be able to fuck
> instead of a creepy guy trying to pick them up.

Might be inner game issues here.