Quote: (04-15-2018 06:30 PM)Caduceus Wrote:
Quote: (04-14-2018 11:43 PM)Tiger Man Wrote:
No. But I know several. You might not be far off on the hygiene thing. One I know asked me for my opinion on "something" once, and it was a "very private" thing. She lifted up the bottom of her shirt and her abdomen was all purple and green, like a really bad bruise. She said it stretched all the way from her "private areas" to where I could see. I sent her over to a gynecologist who worked next to my lab immediately. Long story short, she had an imperforate hymen. It only had the smallest of tears in it. So for several years (this girl was in her early 20s), every time this girl got her period, it was backing up in to her vagina and uterus. The "bruising" was actually a symptom of sepsis. Apparently, she was so messed up, she might not be able to have kids.
After all of this happened, I asked her if she didn't think it was strange that at (I think) 22-years-old, she had never had a proper period. She just responded, "No, not really."
Such were many of the older virgins I have seen. They often actually don't seem to know a whole lot about sex or related things.
As to the fucking part, FYI... There is a distinct and noticeable drop in reported female virginity at 25 and 30 years of age. Women hit those milestones and they more easily give it up. Keep in mind, those that have waited that long often tend to be very clingy. Generally, women who lose their virginities at a late age report much, much lower average sex partners. So, tread carefully unless you are looking for a serious LTR or marriage.
This story is not as crazy as it sounds.
When my grandfather was still alive, he told me that in the 1960s he took one of his sisters at age 33 to a hospital cause she had horrible period pains every month. Pains so bad she collapsed on the floor in agony.
At the time, (the early 1960s) society outside of major cities was still fairly conservative and his sister was unmarried and still a virgin despite being age 33.
The doctor diagnosed some kind of serious infection and she had to have an operation to have both ovaries removed at age 33. I don't know if it this would be the same procedure today (medicine was much less advanced then and crazy radical solutions were often used). I doubt this would be the remedy today. To clarify - it was not anything to do with cancer. She obviously could not have children after that.
Apparently, in the hospital where she was operated on, there were some other women who needed to be treated for the same problem. All these women were virgins past age 30. Some were nuns. (Back in the day when girls actually still became nuns).
My point is, it seems that if a girl doesn't have her hymen broken and starts having a normal sex life by a certain age, her body starts reacting in weird and dangerous ways, rebelling against her with various pains and horrible infections.
Women who are fertile are meant to get fucked by at least 1 man.
Nature makes sure girls who leave it too long are punished if they don't follow the natural order of things.
There was a study done by, I believe, Uecker and Gillis a few years ago about statistical optimization for marriage and sex. They found - and I am speaking generally and off the top of my head here - that there was a sort of "Goldilocks period" for women to start having sex and get in to a long-term relationship or marriage. I believe it was, on the outside, something like 22-28, but they specifically pointed to 24-26 as having the best outcome.
I saw the same thing in my research. There were, generally and in large groups, more negative outcomes for women who started "too early" or "too late". There are actually new studies coming in about these Gen Xers and Millennials that have started marrying for the first time in their 30s. The divorce rates are much higher than expected.
Not unsurprisingly, it appears to be the same for men. It has been, more or less, proven that men who delay having sex until much later in life (think 35+) sort of shut down. Their bodies, independent of any other variables, start to produce much lower levels of testosterone and vasopressin. As such, you can find men who had strong sexual desires at 20, who, now a virgin at 40, have lost much of their sexual desire and function.
Now that I've totally derailed the thread, how about those Miami Dolphins, huh?
Currently out of office.