Eh it’s usually good to get her logistics and situation early in the convo. Usually do that 2-3 questions in to figure out:
How she got here (and how she’s getting home)
Where she lives and with who
Who she is with at the spot.
Keeps you from running in to this issue.
Now 5 hours in it was dumb to ask specifically if she had man but it was dumber to not figure that out way way earlier.
Generally I agree with TK not to ask about guys but you DO want to figure out her logistics so work that angle.
How she got here (and how she’s getting home)
Where she lives and with who
Who she is with at the spot.
Keeps you from running in to this issue.
Now 5 hours in it was dumb to ask specifically if she had man but it was dumber to not figure that out way way earlier.
Generally I agree with TK not to ask about guys but you DO want to figure out her logistics so work that angle.