The jealousy comes from insecurity and scarcity mentality. Men's ability to set aside differences and build coalitions has allowed human society to progress beyond what is normally capable for single individuals or small groups. This is what rich and powerful men do. They are able to set aside petty jealousies and personal differences because they know that by supporting other men and working together they can accrue power, wealth, and influence resulting in more pussy for each member of the coalition than they would have been individually capable of getting.
I used to be jealous of my good looking white friends who had it so easy getting chicks. Trust me it hurts when you go out weekend and after weekend and you see your boys pull cuties without much work while you are coming home at 3AM to jerk off in drunken frustration and impending hangover. And I used to get bitter and angry with them in a typical passive aggressive asian style. But eventually I confronted my own insecurities and took practical measures to improve my game. I started going out more solo because I realized having others to compare myself against didn't help my game. I started expanding my social circle using the friends I already have. I worked on developing ::gasp:: platonic relationships with women (hardest thing for me). And I had learned a lot from my successful friends. Once I got my setup and mindset right, I had much more success. Was I pulling a new 8 every weekend while spinning multiple plates? No, but I was getting laid with some consistency through ONS or mini relationships. Most important thing was that I stopped comparing myself against my friends. I realized that they valued my friendship and they looked up to me in other ways besides banging chicks.
I used to be jealous of my good looking white friends who had it so easy getting chicks. Trust me it hurts when you go out weekend and after weekend and you see your boys pull cuties without much work while you are coming home at 3AM to jerk off in drunken frustration and impending hangover. And I used to get bitter and angry with them in a typical passive aggressive asian style. But eventually I confronted my own insecurities and took practical measures to improve my game. I started going out more solo because I realized having others to compare myself against didn't help my game. I started expanding my social circle using the friends I already have. I worked on developing ::gasp:: platonic relationships with women (hardest thing for me). And I had learned a lot from my successful friends. Once I got my setup and mindset right, I had much more success. Was I pulling a new 8 every weekend while spinning multiple plates? No, but I was getting laid with some consistency through ONS or mini relationships. Most important thing was that I stopped comparing myself against my friends. I realized that they valued my friendship and they looked up to me in other ways besides banging chicks.