Quote: (02-16-2018 12:37 PM)the1element Wrote:
Ah, this was my sexualizing the conversation...
I asked her what was the most adventurous thing she has done, or was it craziest...I can't remember but it was one of those questions.
She told me about a rowing party and it was at a church...
I sort of picked up by the way she said
"It was wild"
That she got fucked, so I just asked her..
You had sex didn't you.
And then she told me the story.
One thing I've been told I am good at is making people comfortable, I've always had this sort of ability and if a girl likes me they usually feel comfortable with telling me stories of depravity.
Interesting, I'm the opposite, I never ask about their sexual history or crazy stories, even after I fuck them.
It could be this "comfort" style of asking could be somewhat of an Achilles heel - because it's messing with your head. I can tell because you were frustrated you couldn't bag her that night.
Like gents have said - don't burn this bridge, keep in contact.