[Chetthebaker]

The threats are textbook narcissistic personality disorder stuff, just like the suitcase bullshit and the "you promised!!!" shit. These people have grandiose delusions of their own power and place in the world, and use it to manipulate people unfortunate enough to be involved with them.

You've done the right thing by going no contact. These desperate attempts to get you to respond only prove further how deep her issues are.