This is just more substantiation for what I've said before about American women (on average) and the type of man you need to learn to be in order to succeed with them.
Lots of young guys (witness the predominance of the "nice guy" phenomenon these days) are confused simply because they are misinterpreting what their female peers actually want. They've been raised to believe that only their utmost respect, kindness, and chivalry will count. They've been raised to believe that their women are sweet, demure angels who deserve nothing but such gentlemanly treatment (in and out of bed).
The reason they're all getting rejected and/or dumped so often is because most women do not actually want any of that. They don't value your respect, they do not want your kindness/chivalry, and they most certainly are not the sweet, demure angels men imagine. They desire the opposite of what these guys probably offer: they want neanderthals (or, at the very least, men who know how to act like neanderthals).
If you are not a neanderthal and/or have trouble behaving like one or conceiving the possibility of becoming one, then you will struggle with American women until you figure out how to devolve (hint: alcohol, in moderation, is your friend). This is the biggest challenge for young guys to overcome in taking the red pill, because it goes against everything our civilization teaches us (unless you're from parts of the inner city/urban community-they seem to naturally understand all of this).
Guys often need to fundamentally re-think and reverse everything they know about interacting with the opposite sex. This is why 80-90% of men are easily duped betas and will remain so-this is extremely difficult to do.
Dating here is a race to the bottom-first one to hit the ground (and stay there) wins.
If you don't like this, get on a plane. So long as you live here, there will be no escape from this reality.
Quote: (02-06-2012 06:15 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:
What young guys need to remember is that with the average American woman, you must devolve, and regress to a more primal state of being (read: become a caveman). There is no room for calm, measured approaches, no room for chivalry, no room for anything remotely gentlemanly or intellectual, and no time to wait a few dates for sex. Throw ALL of that out the window, or prepare for involuntary celibacy.
Lots of young guys (witness the predominance of the "nice guy" phenomenon these days) are confused simply because they are misinterpreting what their female peers actually want. They've been raised to believe that only their utmost respect, kindness, and chivalry will count. They've been raised to believe that their women are sweet, demure angels who deserve nothing but such gentlemanly treatment (in and out of bed).
The reason they're all getting rejected and/or dumped so often is because most women do not actually want any of that. They don't value your respect, they do not want your kindness/chivalry, and they most certainly are not the sweet, demure angels men imagine. They desire the opposite of what these guys probably offer: they want neanderthals (or, at the very least, men who know how to act like neanderthals).
If you are not a neanderthal and/or have trouble behaving like one or conceiving the possibility of becoming one, then you will struggle with American women until you figure out how to devolve (hint: alcohol, in moderation, is your friend). This is the biggest challenge for young guys to overcome in taking the red pill, because it goes against everything our civilization teaches us (unless you're from parts of the inner city/urban community-they seem to naturally understand all of this).
Guys often need to fundamentally re-think and reverse everything they know about interacting with the opposite sex. This is why 80-90% of men are easily duped betas and will remain so-this is extremely difficult to do.
Dating here is a race to the bottom-first one to hit the ground (and stay there) wins.
If you don't like this, get on a plane. So long as you live here, there will be no escape from this reality.
Know your enemy and know yourself, find naught in fear for 100 battles. Know yourself but not your enemy, find level of loss and victory. Know thy enemy but not yourself, wallow in defeat every time.