This line has been on my mind since a woman at a club said this to me a few months ago. She was a middle age woman. Nice curves, wore the nicest body-fitting dress you've ever seen. A mother but clearly able to keep in shape. As we're sitting chatting, she said to me:
"I've been with black guys. My last boyfriend was black. But you seem like you're always anxious. You need to be more fierce."
I asked her what that meant, but she didn't have a straight answer. Maybe someone here can clue me on what she was referring to. I have a theory she means "being hard". Not the looking ghetto part, but like the media vision of the black male with nice suit, barely smiles, and doesn't do a lot of talking. I smile a lot, mostly because I was use to doing that in normal social situations, and I can hold a conversation.
"I've been with black guys. My last boyfriend was black. But you seem like you're always anxious. You need to be more fierce."
I asked her what that meant, but she didn't have a straight answer. Maybe someone here can clue me on what she was referring to. I have a theory she means "being hard". Not the looking ghetto part, but like the media vision of the black male with nice suit, barely smiles, and doesn't do a lot of talking. I smile a lot, mostly because I was use to doing that in normal social situations, and I can hold a conversation.