[kinjutsu]

The best advice i can give you is determine which red flags are ones you can live with and ones you cannot.
Also just because she gives off red flags isn't doesnt mean you're gonna marry her or even date her long term.

I never "hard next" a girl right off the bat because of a red flag.
A hard next from me has to be earned, to the point i truly have seen something i don't wish to associate with ever again.
I soft next them by being a bit too busy with work/school/family whatever.
Or i just friend zone them. Keep the attraction high so when you want to fuck them, they are receptive to you.