At almost 40 your learning some valuable lessons from this EE woman. This current life lesson will assist you in the future for saving yourself time and stress. So thank her for that "gift" when your quietly reflecting on your relationship later.
To her your the provider she has let you know by sex that she has entered into a relationship with you
Ukrainians mindset (for girls older than 20) is that anything they have will be taken away (they spend all money quickly) their apartment, thier lifestyle their car and even their man will cheat and leave.
Most older Ukrainian girls being the hardship driven practical people they are know (in their heads) they will be alone and have to provide for themselves (take full advantage of beauty power while they can) and also for a child(s).....soft bellied tender footed touchy feely cry baby rich westerners they have no time for. (who cares about your stupid day...or even who you are!!!!)
The women want relationship failure "upfront" or complete dominance to protect themselves
This isn't a shit test ....it's push/pull and like what PappaTapper wrote "you have to lead"....you almost have to become the womans fucking Father...meaning provider...endless love...confidence...loyal....principled...respected...patience...strength...guid​ance.
If this women is "leading" you to Paris and working on her own career plans you may be right on thinking your just a "platform" for her.
I didn't see where you spoke Ukrainian.....so I assume she's speaking to you in English (Ukrainian to a foreigner wall or divide)
Also remember that Ukrainian woman know "feelings" get them in trouble (especially when highly educated) and she has family and girlfriends that continually reinforce to her to use her head, warn/caution her and to be practical about her life.
In your case she is already well aware of the cracks in your relationship and will ignore them to follow her lifeplan and as you already kinda know, with you or without you
IMO
To her your the provider she has let you know by sex that she has entered into a relationship with you
Ukrainians mindset (for girls older than 20) is that anything they have will be taken away (they spend all money quickly) their apartment, thier lifestyle their car and even their man will cheat and leave.
Most older Ukrainian girls being the hardship driven practical people they are know (in their heads) they will be alone and have to provide for themselves (take full advantage of beauty power while they can) and also for a child(s).....soft bellied tender footed touchy feely cry baby rich westerners they have no time for. (who cares about your stupid day...or even who you are!!!!)
The women want relationship failure "upfront" or complete dominance to protect themselves
This isn't a shit test ....it's push/pull and like what PappaTapper wrote "you have to lead"....you almost have to become the womans fucking Father...meaning provider...endless love...confidence...loyal....principled...respected...patience...strength...guid​ance.
If this women is "leading" you to Paris and working on her own career plans you may be right on thinking your just a "platform" for her.
I didn't see where you spoke Ukrainian.....so I assume she's speaking to you in English (Ukrainian to a foreigner wall or divide)
Also remember that Ukrainian woman know "feelings" get them in trouble (especially when highly educated) and she has family and girlfriends that continually reinforce to her to use her head, warn/caution her and to be practical about her life.
In your case she is already well aware of the cracks in your relationship and will ignore them to follow her lifeplan and as you already kinda know, with you or without you
IMO