[questor70]

I don't want to get too detailed for fear of doxxing but I had a life-threatening illness as a child and it left bodily scars which was the driver behind my shyness and feeling the only avenue to women was through the friend-zone. I'm still super self-conscious taking my shirt off because of this. Since we try to maintain anonymity people tend not to appreciate that everyone's got their own unique challenges in the sexual marketplace, and some of them don't just disappear by getting jacked or acting alpha.