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Spartan, I can't believe your still sticking to your guns on this issue. You're resigning yourself to marriage because you're "Bad at game", which is the worst reason to get married I've ever heard. Marriage is not an exit from the "SMP". Having weak game is a reason NOT to get married, because it will only make your marriage more miserable and increase the chances of ending up sexless, divorced and on the rope for paying half your income in alimony for a couple decades.