Quote: (10-06-2017 09:56 AM)Lucky Wrote:
Day 32.
Now debating whether to fuck this chubby girl on Bumble just to get a release. I've never fucked a fat girl. But horniness is becoming be a serious productivity issue for me.
My two cents.
Dont do that. I did that and wish I could take it back.
Literally could not concentrate on any task because I was so horny. Fucked a fat girl, had to knock a couple shots back to do it. Fast Forward I'm jacking off like 4 times a day?? Again? Backwards progress.
If you meditate or just sit still with your eyes closed, you can take all that energy in your sexual region and move it around in your body, then transmute that into your work tasks.
That feeling of lust will get you into trouble if you don't control it and master it. It will lead you to do something silly like have sex with a pig. No. Because you're not thinking anymore.
When youre sexual urges become overwhelming there is a problem. Think with your big brain and your heart. Not your penis. Okay.
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Nofap is the hardest thing in the world when you have a strong libido. I can literally fap 3 times in a day and then fuck a girl that same night--the entire night--without problem.
How in the hell do you stop?? And what do you do with all the sexual energy?
I had a strong libido as well. And I'd say a lot of guys that do no fap do have healthy strong libidos. The problem among other things is the mental wiring.
Looking back, porn consumption turned me into an animal. Animalistic. A woman in front of me was not a woman anymore, I was not in tune to the present anymore, she was essentially a fuck doll. My brain was not in tune to little nuances anymore and was unhealthy.
When I tried to quit it seemed like my libido was out of control and I had to fuck. All my attention was on my penis. When I saw a woman I thought of fucking her. Or had to jack off. It seemed impossible. That was actually not the case. I was fucked up in my head. After two weeks that desire to have sex all the time went away.
If you feel the need to have sex 5 times a day then whatever, just avoid pornography, it screws up your mind. But in my opinion lack of control of your sexual urges is a weakness. If you look at a women and think of fucking her that's a weakness.
If you read pimp literature, you see they have extreme self discipline when it comes to sex. It puts modern men to shame. It's like, the whole game niche on the internet and starting with Neil Strauss's book was just about getting sex with 'hot' girls or at least getting women available to us, social proof, but now, more so, it's just about sex. and the ROI isn't there for that. Just sex? Really? We're getting shortchanged on the deal if its about sex.
Pimps know with women it's about the mind, and to hear guys relapsing on porn and having to have sex all the time. We're supposed to be more disciplined than regular guys. I think this is an issue we're not addressing as a community of exceptional men.
It's all about mental mastery. The thing is when I look at women now, 3 months in, I only see a hole to fuck, because women arent exactly women anymore. No I'm realizing it's not me, its the women. Or society. Or the environment, or something.
Know what I mean.