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Great stuff. Susan Walsh believes there is assorted selection, where monogamous couples stick with each other, while promiscuous Players (men and women) hookup among themselves. Alternatively, Basil says that Players hookup with everybody. Under Basil's theory, the average partner of a Player might actually have fewer partners than the average partner of a monogamous person.

Here's an example. Walsh says that sexual partners are like running partners. Slow runners get slow partners, and fast runners get fast partners. But Basil Ransom says it is more like white water rafting or mountain climbing. Beginners don't dare do these activities without an experienced partner. So a few professional guides give tours all day to novices, while novices only go with professional guides.

This is important for strategy. If you believe Walsh then you search for sluts. But if you believe Basil Ransom, then you work on game. There may be a little truth in both, but I'm with Basil.

OKCupid showed that women are all focused on the most attractive men.
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.html/your-l...ne-dating/