To the OP.. You have been offered many solutions, and guesses as to cause.
Anxiety... all in your head... self fulfilling prophesy.. performance anxiety.. mental blocks.
And they are all correct, to a certain degree. But we need to FIX this!
Let me pose a test for you to try. Next time you are with a comfortable girl of yours.
One who you never have any issues or sexually related problems with, try this.
Just before you are getting ready to do the deed. Stop yourself, and try to replicate
your previous issues. Think about it, and see what happens. Do you lose your boner?
If not, you may have just ended that problem with other girls permanently.
If you still can follow through, and plow her into oblivion, which I bet you will..
it very well could be Problem Solved. You will have "adjusted" your frame.
Good luck bud.
Anxiety... all in your head... self fulfilling prophesy.. performance anxiety.. mental blocks.
And they are all correct, to a certain degree. But we need to FIX this!
Let me pose a test for you to try. Next time you are with a comfortable girl of yours.
One who you never have any issues or sexually related problems with, try this.
Just before you are getting ready to do the deed. Stop yourself, and try to replicate
your previous issues. Think about it, and see what happens. Do you lose your boner?
If not, you may have just ended that problem with other girls permanently.
If you still can follow through, and plow her into oblivion, which I bet you will..
it very well could be Problem Solved. You will have "adjusted" your frame.
Good luck bud.