Yeah, I've come around on this a bit too, but a guy has to hold some serious frame in order to make sure that the woman doesn't get too comfortable.
Cohabitation is a skill that aids in a successful LTR down the line but those legal pitfalls need to scrupulously monitored. The best way to enter into these kind of arrangements initially is to maintain separate homes but stay with each other for increasingly long periods. The "all in" method is a recipe for disaster, especially for the uninitiated. And don't think it's going to save you money. Women may talk a big game about paying for half of everything and it might start out like that but the novelty will soon wear off for them, and pretty soon you're going to be footing all the bills.
Cohabitation is a skill that aids in a successful LTR down the line but those legal pitfalls need to scrupulously monitored. The best way to enter into these kind of arrangements initially is to maintain separate homes but stay with each other for increasingly long periods. The "all in" method is a recipe for disaster, especially for the uninitiated. And don't think it's going to save you money. Women may talk a big game about paying for half of everything and it might start out like that but the novelty will soon wear off for them, and pretty soon you're going to be footing all the bills.
The public will judge a man by what he lifts, but those close to him will judge him by what he carries.