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(01-23-2012 12:17 PM)ColSpanker Wrote:  

(01-23-2012 08:49 AM)P Dog Wrote:  

Does it work? Have you been successful with it?

Not as much as I would like.
But there is only so much you can do without pissing off the target or their husband/boyfriend/family member.
I find it works best at keeping my game honed.

Good luck Spanker. A very good friend got tons of women specializing in this. He isn't the best looking dude, but he is a genius. He was a waiter in a medium-to high end French cafe and ran his game to perfection, balancing decorum as his job dictated, and being forward. I observed him once chatting up two women at his table and he was able to do things that would take the rest of us a while because he had a captive audience. Because the audience was "captive," the rules for him changed. He entertained them and made them happy. He was expected to be charming and talkative, except that he then went above and beyond the call of duty to ask girls what they were doing later...so he could be "of assistance" and "help" them find the right spots. If they were tourists or clueless he'd say him and his friends are going to this great new place thats the talk of the town, blah blah later, then call us up to meet up with him and make it seem like the girls were joining something already going. What a helpful guy.

I would imagine your challenge is how to bridge what you're selling into personal conversation and then to the next level. The restaurant thing works so well because girls are usually doing something after dinner.