First - the language used by you shows that you need to read up on Game. Check out rationalmale.com.
Your assessment of calling your girl a "Beta or Alpha" is already wrong. Women have a different grade - they should always be a Beta to your Alpha. Her market value is derived from her beauty, fitness and youth. She may very well be an 8 or who knows a 9 who you got young. A 10 is a personal 9. Also an 8 could already work as a model if tall enough.
Your market value is not only derived from your looks, but also height, personality (the more cocky, self-confident etc.), your Game, your money, your job, your family, your friends, your social status etc. So essentially you may be looks wise below her, but that does not mean that you are in raw market value. But to assess that you need to learn more about the Red Pill.
It seems that you are concerned about her leaving you for someone better. First rule:
1) Never mateguard - that reeks of desperation and Beta-state. Some lesser Alphas do it too, but it seldom works.
2) You go about and have your own goals, let a woman be your side-dish and not the main one. That is what attracts women to you.
That means the best way to raise your SMV is to have goals in life, start working out, start slimming down if overweight, start learning fun stuff you would like to do (if somewhat attractive to women - playing computer games will be fun to you, but will not raise your SMV), become someone "who is going places". Learn Game and become better with women, learn concepts of Game. Be more dominant with your girl, fuck her in a very dominant demanding way. Flirt with other women, seduce other women slightly even if you have no desire to fuck them - that will help you as well.
Even starting on that voyage will give you a boost in SMV at least as she sees it. Also become a man who can get hotter or as hot girls as her - you cannot be concerned that she may leave you.
Tattooes can help sometimes, but in a LTR that does not impact her so much. There are no quick "get attractive" solutions. It is a always a process, but one that you can start with the first step right now.
Your assessment of calling your girl a "Beta or Alpha" is already wrong. Women have a different grade - they should always be a Beta to your Alpha. Her market value is derived from her beauty, fitness and youth. She may very well be an 8 or who knows a 9 who you got young. A 10 is a personal 9. Also an 8 could already work as a model if tall enough.
Your market value is not only derived from your looks, but also height, personality (the more cocky, self-confident etc.), your Game, your money, your job, your family, your friends, your social status etc. So essentially you may be looks wise below her, but that does not mean that you are in raw market value. But to assess that you need to learn more about the Red Pill.
It seems that you are concerned about her leaving you for someone better. First rule:
1) Never mateguard - that reeks of desperation and Beta-state. Some lesser Alphas do it too, but it seldom works.
2) You go about and have your own goals, let a woman be your side-dish and not the main one. That is what attracts women to you.
That means the best way to raise your SMV is to have goals in life, start working out, start slimming down if overweight, start learning fun stuff you would like to do (if somewhat attractive to women - playing computer games will be fun to you, but will not raise your SMV), become someone "who is going places". Learn Game and become better with women, learn concepts of Game. Be more dominant with your girl, fuck her in a very dominant demanding way. Flirt with other women, seduce other women slightly even if you have no desire to fuck them - that will help you as well.
Even starting on that voyage will give you a boost in SMV at least as she sees it. Also become a man who can get hotter or as hot girls as her - you cannot be concerned that she may leave you.
Tattooes can help sometimes, but in a LTR that does not impact her so much. There are no quick "get attractive" solutions. It is a always a process, but one that you can start with the first step right now.