I recently ended my LTR, and this issue was one of the reasons (not the only one). She insisted on maintaining her beta orbiters- even going out to dinner with one of them at times- and responding via text to a guy who was shamelessly, relentless, and directly hitting on her (over the course of weeks). She disqualified him because he's supposedly only 18. Shit, when I was 19 or 20 I was banging older women in their mid 20s, so that doesn't mean anything.
She even gave a veiled threat when I called her on it: "If I wanted to cheat, you would never know his name" or something like that.
It's something you've gotta put up with in the early stages of courtship, but I feel it is crossing the line when in a LTR. When I think about things like this it puts any doubts to rest that I may have made a wrong decision.
She even gave a veiled threat when I called her on it: "If I wanted to cheat, you would never know his name" or something like that.
It's something you've gotta put up with in the early stages of courtship, but I feel it is crossing the line when in a LTR. When I think about things like this it puts any doubts to rest that I may have made a wrong decision.