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What is going on with this VIRGIN thing, one of the most absurd nonsense I ever read here, only on RVF I guess

Anyway...

You think it's hard work simply because you want to be in relationship with your GF and live your single life at the same time. It won't work for healthy healthy relationship. You need to make a decision. You're either in or out.

Relationships are not "hard work", relationships are relationships. There is a innate nature of a relationship that you seem to neglect. The basic premise of any LTR is sharing everything, your time, energy, resources, problems, etc. That's how it works. That's the nature of it. When a chick needs your attention a lot, that's not hard work of LTR, that's something natural and expected. That's the default state of LTR.

It's like saying working out is hard work because you have to rip your muscle tissues, sweat, it hurts, it makes you tired, etc. Well, duh, it is like that, that's normal.