I've seen this dynamic at all the restaurants I've worked at. Waitresses - especially the young and good looking ones - tend to be very unforgiving about guys trying to pick them up while they're on the clock. Can count at least half a dozen occasions where a girl is jabbering in the back with another waitress talking about how creepy some customer is and then I see them on the floor flirting with the same guys they were talking shit about 30 seconds ago.
It's not impossible but the odds are stacked against you. You'll likely have more success if you're in the service industry or at least know a thing or two about the job that can ingratiate yourself with her and set yourself apart from the other schmoes that are constantly hitting on her. Same goes for if you're very good looking or charming, but then that's good for any situation. Good luck...
It's not impossible but the odds are stacked against you. You'll likely have more success if you're in the service industry or at least know a thing or two about the job that can ingratiate yourself with her and set yourself apart from the other schmoes that are constantly hitting on her. Same goes for if you're very good looking or charming, but then that's good for any situation. Good luck...