Is it wrong to want a serious girlfriend over being a player while still in college?
11-02-2016, 02:00 AM
I was in a few in college. It kept me sexed. It also helped me focus on finishing my STEM degree in 4 years with a high GPA.
But:
My life trajectory probably would've been completely different and more entrepreneur-minded instead of highly paid wageslave minded.
I'd focus on bigger picture things over hunting for a serious girlfriend. If it happens, it happens, but don't go looking like I did. You'll convince yourself you found something.
And when you're 30, you can still grab a college girl for a relationship, and the age/power dynamic will be much more in your favor.
But:
- I was cheated on by at least one of them and risked pregnancy with that same one. Almost cucked? Possibly!
- I didn't develop much game
- I missed out on a lot of social development and connection making
- I could've hustled for money instead and built a big nest egg Wallstreet Playboys style
- I wasn't motivated to do much physical development
My life trajectory probably would've been completely different and more entrepreneur-minded instead of highly paid wageslave minded.
I'd focus on bigger picture things over hunting for a serious girlfriend. If it happens, it happens, but don't go looking like I did. You'll convince yourself you found something.
And when you're 30, you can still grab a college girl for a relationship, and the age/power dynamic will be much more in your favor.