Quote: (01-08-2012 03:37 PM)CtrlAltElite Wrote:
Thanks for all your advice and help guys. I will report back when I have made at least some progress.
I remember myself as a late teen having so bad social anexiety that I could barely stay inside a club full of people for too long before I freaked out and left.
It might take time, but you will get over it, if that is your honest desire.
If things STILL feel too extreme for you, try a simpler approach. Go to a club, by yourself, go inside on a moment that it is full, see a girl you find cute, poke her gently, just say "hi!" and leave the place. That was your work for the day.
And every time you go out, you push a little further, untill you either can do this to many girls on a single night (increasing gradually in numbers of approach) or mantain a full conversation (increasing gradually in minutes of conversation). Ideally both.