Quote: (01-08-2012 01:07 PM)dice3510 Wrote:
Quote: (01-08-2012 09:52 AM)MMM Wrote:
From the chick's point of view, this is a turn on, since she thinks "wow, I am such a special little snowflake that has this effect on men."
What? Not putting women on pedestals is one of the core game maxims. She might be nice out of empathy and pity, but she will not feel attracted to you if you admit that you are nervous... unless you have some redeeming quality like very good looks (which have to be at least equal to hers if you want to get away with textbook beta attitude)
I can totally see how an open, vulnerable and honest attitude like that can dissolve a girl's bitch shield, forcing her to connect with something more "down to earth" and human in her. Not every slut out there is a feral beast.
Don't be dogmatic, there are many ways to play the game, and being able to show some vulnerability can be a good component of your arsenal. Instead of spitting game dogma, go out and try it.